Hehe thanks.  Yeah it is strange that we feel that way.  I always like to analyse stuff, but I have yet to figure out why.  You would think that it would be because ppl feel things like, if I hadn’t of done this, or wore that, or gone there this never would have happened.  But for children and for me (since it started before I can remember) that logic wouldn’t fit in.  It’s sad because that way of thinking pits us into deep dispair instead of enabling us to take action to stop the person and rebuilding our lives.