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Saturday, August 08, 2009

After Sunday, I will no longer be a pastor

 August 9, 2009 will be my last day as Senior Pastor of Cornerstone Baptist Church. I'm going to post an email below (slightly edited) that I sent to my siblings and parents. I appreciate your prayers as our family moves on.

Hi everyone,

In case you haven't heard, I resigned from my position as pastor of our church. That sounds so ominous, but it really isn't that way. In a nutshell, I've realized that at this time in our lives, our family needs me more than the church does.

This will be a big adjustment. Since Bev and I have been married, we've always either been in Bible school training for the ministry or I've been a pastor. For the first time we'll be "church shopping". Kind of a weird feeling, which I'm sure will get weirder as we actually start the process of finding a new church. We've been at Cornerstone for almost 14 years (a third of my life). Tara is probably the only one of our kids that even remembers going anywhere else for church.

This Sunday, August 9th will be our last Sunday with Cornerstone Baptist. I'll be preaching the message for our 16th anniversary service (the church's, not Bev's and mine!). ...

Anyway, just wanted you to know what's going on with us. Hope all is well for your family.

Below is my resignation letter given to our Leadership Team and then read to the congregation:

July 24, 2009

Dear Leadership Team and church family at Cornerstone Baptist,

This is a very difficult note to write. Please accept this letter as notice of my resignation from my position as Senior Pastor of Cornerstone Baptist Church, Lititz PA.

The Lord has made it very clear to me that this is His will at this time. Please understand and believe that I’m not stepping down because I’m discouraged over things at the church, nor am I frustrated with anyone in the congregation. On the contrary, this has been a hard decision because I love this work and all the people that make up Cornerstone. I’m excited about what the Lord’s doing here, the new families that have been attending, the excitement for outreach and the unity in this body. Our church isn’t perfect, but there’s a love here that transcends human ability.

However, the Lord has made it clear that my family has needs that I can’t fulfill while being a pastor. As my children have grown, I’ve seen areas in our family calling for attention, yet I’m unable to focus on those while serving in this role. The saddest emotion in life is regret, and I don’t want to look back in ten years and think, “If only I’d acted when the Lord told me to do something.”

Because I’m resigning as Senior Pastor, my family and I will attend another church. Many men have tried remaining in the church they used to pastor, only to find that they hurt the church’s health. The congregation needs to move on from my leadership, and that’s hard to do if I’m still here. I also believe that I personally won’t be able to effectively accomplish my family goals if I remain at Cornerstone. This is undoubtedly the hardest part of this decision. I’ve served a third of my life with this church, and I love the people here deeply.

Our last Sunday at Cornerstone will be August 9, 2009. Until that time, I’ll help the Leadership Team in whichever way they deem most appropriate to make this as smooth a transition as possible. Please pray for them, for my family and for the congregation. This will be a difficult time all around.

I’m not sure exactly where the Lord is leading all of us, but I know that the only successful choice is to obey Him.

Much love in Christ,

Brian Volpone

Senior Pastor

Cornerstone Baptist Church



This will be a new chapter in our lives. I expect we will do some grieving, but ultimately I'm convinced that we're obeying the Lord. Again, thanks for your prayers for our family and for our church.

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God bless you in this adjustment and decision!
Posted 8/9/2009 12:36 AM by seedsower Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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Wow, that is a big change. I applaud you for deciding to dedicate more time to your family. I hope all the best for them, and you.
Posted 8/9/2009 2:07 AM by Syphan - reply

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I'm sitting here in our night time, having just come home from our Sunday Night Youth Service, and i am realising that you are probably not even awake on the day that you have to face your last day at the church you love. Brian and Bev, i am just so proud of you for following our God, rather than dismissing Him at the risk of losing your family to the world you are trying to protect the congregation from. Be blessed my family in Christ, and be encouraged. You ARE doing the right thing and as i have already said ... the door may be closing to this chapter of your life, but a window is sure to be opened in the new one. I am not talking necessarily public ministry, but i do know that the Lord does not ask us to do something unless there is a step up in due to our obedience.


God bless you all,


I'm praying,


Narelle


((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

Posted 8/9/2009 6:38 AM by narellew - reply

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Wow. That is such a big change! Do you have any plans for future work? I will keep you and your family in my prayers as you come to mind. God bless.
Posted 8/9/2009 9:22 AM by weedorwildflower Xanga True Member - reply

I can't even imagine the heartache for you, your family and your flock Pastor. I can remember how hard it was for me when you were called to this church. I pray that Christ will fill the needs of both your family and your church with peace.

Christ will bless the entire situation for your obedience. As the song goes that always make me remember you, "Thank you for giving to the LORD. I AM a life that was changed... I am so glad you gave."

Bryce P
Posted 8/9/2009 3:03 PM by Bryce P - reply

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@weedorwildflower - 

Hi Luann, I don't work for the church full time, so I'm still at the job that pays most of the bills. We're also staying in the area. It's just the rest of the transition that will be hard.
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good luck to you and your family.
Posted 8/9/2009 10:33 PM by IfWallsCouldTalk21 Xanga True Member - reply

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Wow, Brian. That's a big step. And, we sure know what it is like to be adrift in the church sea....I pray that the Lord leads you to a place that will be good for all of you. Blessings.
Posted 8/10/2009 9:06 PM by i_was_there_and_back_again Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I had no idea this change was in the works, Brian. My heart goes out to you and Bev. We love you guys and trust that you are hearing the Lord in this. May he hold you close and guide your every step. All the best to you, bro.
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I want to commend you for choosing your family over your ministry.  Many people get it wrong, but don't realize it until it's too late.  I'm sure it's been a difficult decision, but you won't regret making it.
Posted 8/11/2009 1:55 AM by ninochka - reply

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You might know how I feel about a pastor losing track of his family when they need him. It never leads to anything good and sometimes it's tragic.

I cant see you stepping back from serving God. It is just going a different direction now.
Posted 9/2/2009 2:23 PM by trunthepaige Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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@trunthepaige - 

I never thought of your experiences and how they might apply to my situation, but I appreciate your reminder. I'm not sure where this road will lead, but it's got to go somewhere good, right? :) Obedience always results in blessing.

I still think you should come out to Lancaster county sometime to visit with your husband. :)
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If work ever sends me to your state, I will try and bring him. I think my traveling will be more restricted until the econimy picks up.

Oh I so doubt any of your children have gone so astray as that. But if any have gone even a little off track. Said pastors son has really really changed for the better. A few years of your life are not your doom so long as God is there. And he always is
Posted 9/2/2009 3:46 PM by trunthepaige Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Hey. Stopping by to see how you are doing, and what's been up? :) Hope all is well. It's been like a month now since you were Pastor...can I still call you PB though?


*hugs* Take care...

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RYC: Thanks so much PB!! :) I hope so too. I'm in such a dry apathetic spell? One that has lasted SO LONG, so long that I have forgotten exactly when it all began. But I feel very much alone and distant in the talk of God. *sigh* Thanks for always being an encourager. And for your prayers. You are awesome!


How are things with you and your family??

Posted 9/22/2009 9:12 AM by IfWallsCouldTalk21 Xanga True Member - reply

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Its hard in any position you've been in for a long time to leave, even if you know its for the best. Good luck Church shopping!
Posted 9/28/2009 4:27 PM by AlterEgo909 Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply


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